Etiquette

When you meet me, you will meet the woman in the pictures. Just as I plan to meet your expectations, I have a set of expectations to be met.


  • I neither accept nor provide references for agencies.

    I happily accept employment verification but reserve the right to secure our first meeting with a deposit.

    I prefer to see gentlemen over the age of 35; however I can make exceptions for gentlemen under 35 should you have two reputable provider references within the past eight months. A two hour minimum is recommended.

    ID will be checked upon meeting and must match the information I have on file.

  • I strongly encourage that inquiries be booked twenty-four hours or more in advance. Please be mindful, I live a full life and same-day requests are likely to be declined. As a morning person, I do not offer late night rendezvous.

    An inquiry does not constitute a booking. As someone who values quality relationships, I screen all clients for compatibility. Please feel free to introduce yourself and tell me why you think I am the right match for you.

  • When scheduling dates, I prefer to only communicate via email. I will contact you the day of our appointment to confirm, preferably via text message. Talking on the phone is only used for logistical purposes if absolutely necessary. Please keep phone usage to a minimum and limited to appointment communication.

    If you have made an inquiry through email and have not received a response within 72 hours, it was most likely due to the email being offensive, explicit, vague, or lacking in seriousness. If you feel these reasons do not apply to you, I invite you to make another inquiry.

  • Your benefaction is for my time only. Any activities that are unlawful, risk the health of either party or risk our safety will not be tolerated and our date will be terminated.

    Alternative payment methods are available for established friends only.

    If you are coming to me, please hand the prepared benefaction along with ID. Please then excuse yourself to the restroom to freshen up.

    If I am coming to you, please have the investment prepared along with ID in the restroom prior to my arrival.

    If we are meeting in public, please place the benefaction in a card, gift bag, book, or some other discrete means. The best is a small paper tote retail bag you’d get at a store.

    Please take the appropriate measures to follow these instructions as discussing my benefaction takes away from our experience together.

  • I will not turn into a pumpkin when the clock strikes twelve but I do ask you to be respectful of my time as I am of yours.

    If you are running late to our date please let me know ASAP with your ETA. Appointments five minutes late will be unaffected.

    If you are running ten minutes late or more, our appointment will be cut short and end at the predetermined time. My full benefaction will still apply.

    If we are enjoying our time together and you wish to extend our date, I will be happy to accommodate your desire should my schedule permit. An in-date extension is $400 per hour. Please have my benefaction taken care of before we proceed.

  • I have a cozy in-call located in Minneapolis. If you prefer to meet at a hotel, I can secure a location for an additional fee paid via deposit. I offer out-calls to upscale hotels only. Personal residences may be accommodated on a case-by-case basis.

  • There is nothing more irresistible than a gentleman who is freshly showered, shaven, and has minty fresh breath. Preparing yourself will maximize our experience together.

    If you are coming to see me straight from work, traveling, or a sporting event and do not have time prior, rest assured that I will provide necessary toiletries.

    Excellent hygiene is a must. I make myself presentable for you by always being fresh and clean. I expect you to take your hygiene seriously as well.

    You're welcome to use my shower upon arrival if you are unable to bathe immediately prior to our meeting.

    If you have a perfume allergy, please inform me when booking our date. I want you to be comfortable!

    Please keep your hands washed and clean. Nails on your hands and feet should be clean and trimmed short.

    If you smoke or eat during our date, please wash your hands afterwards and have a toothbrush or mints handy.

    Please wear deodorant. I love it when a man wears cologne or aftershave too. It's sexy!

    Do not use body powder. If you're wearing body powder, please remove it in the shower.

    Do not leave the door open when using the bathroom and always wash your hands. Please behave like a gentleman; a lady is present.

    If you begin our date with poor hygiene and refuse to freshen up, I won’t feel comfortable spending time with you and our date will have to end with no refund.

  • I understand life happens and cancellations may occur.

    Any cancellation made more than 48 hours of our date will be unaffected.

    A cancellation within 48 to 24 hours of our date will incur an 80% cancellation fee of the booked appointment. Payment is due within twenty-four hours of invoicing.

    A cancellation within 24 hours of our date will incur a 100% cancellation fee of the booked appointment. Full payment is due within twenty-four hours of invoicing.

    I request to be notified ASAP. After two consecutive cancellations I will no longer accept your booking form.

    On the exceptionally rare occasion that I have to cancel our date, I will give the option for any deposit to be refunded or to be held to secure a different date.

  • I ask for you to make a request prior to listing me as a reference. If we have met once I will provide up to three references for eight months from our date. If our date was six hours or more, I will provide up to five references. If we have had two or more dates I will provide references for up to one year from our last meeting.

Understanding boundaries and requirements beforehand enables us to relax and become better acquainted in a peaceful environment. I've listed mine below and have answered any additional questions or concerns you may have.

  • I only devote my time to people who are kind, well-mannered and respectful.

  • I love to laugh and share stories, it's the best ice-breaker.

  • I’m very organized, a great planner and a foodie, so if you need help planning our date, don't hesitate to ask! I highly recommend making dining and entertainment reservations in advance.

  • Anything that occurs on our date will be mutually agreed upon between two consenting adults.

  • Any attempts made by you or other parties to bypass my screening, inquire about a specific "menu" or use of vulgar or condescending language will result in immediate termination of the meeting and our correspondence.

  • Please be on time and don't arrive early. If I'm able to meet earlier than originally planned, I'll be sure to let you know in advance.

  • Our date begins when we meet. If our appointment includes social time, it is included in the booking duration.

  • Please notify me before using me as a reference. It's common courtesy.

  • I am open to being a reference for you twice before our next date and up to one year after our last date. After two references, there is a $100 fee for each additional reference request between dates. I'll accept a gift from my LuxyList or an Amazon digital gift card. I can no longer be a reference for you over one year after our last date.

  • I do not condone drug use and expect that you will not be visibly drunk or under the influence of any illegal substances when we meet and that you will not use illegal substances during our date.

  • I'm legal 420-friendly but will not "partoke" unless you do.

  • If you smoke cigarettes or cigars or vape, kindly do so outdoors.

  • If I am visiting you, please make an effort to set the mood before I arrive with a clean and inviting environment. For example, make sure the space has been cleaned with fresh towels and bedding, dim the lights, light candles, warm up the room and turn on soft music. It will help both of us relax and unwind.

  • Whether we are new or old friends, if you would like to be in touch, it's up to you to contact me first. Our time for getting to know each other or catching up occurs on our date.

  • To finalize our date, I will confirm via email the day before our date and may provide my phone number if that is preferred...Phone calls are only accepted per prior agreement.

  • Looking to chit-chat more regularly? This is possible if we are in an official ongoing arrangement. Otherwise communication is limited to finalizing a date and sending or receiving gifts.

  • If I am joining you on a business trip and you are only able to spend time together before or after work, I love being treated to meals, shopping or a gym, museum or spa visit while you are away. I will be awaiting your return to be your perfect escape from stress!

  • If I am visiting you for a FMTY, I use a car service to and from the airport. If you would prefer to pick me up from the airport, I can meet you curbside, not at baggage claim.

  • Uninterrupted sleep is required for all overnight bookings in order for me to be at my best for you. If you desire to be sleepless overnight, my overnight rate is doubled. While I love to cuddle, I need my personal space and quiet for proper rest. I'd greatly appreciate a separate bed or, when possible, a separate bedroom so I can fully rejuvenate for our time together. If we have a large hotel suite with a king-sized bed and you are a respectful gentleman, I may make an exception.

  • For overnight trio and group dates, I require my own bed for a restful night's sleep to be at my best for all involved. A double bed room or suite with separate bedrooms is required.

  • My rates are non-negotiable and I do not provide complimentary extended time on a date and will not void my cancellation policy whether we are new or old friends.

  • Privacy: Discretion is of utmost importance to me.

    Please do not attempt to hand me my donation or make me ask for it in public; it ruins the mood. If I am visiting you, please hand me my donation. If we are meeting in public, please keep my donation somewhere safe and discreet such as a book or greeting card in a gift bag or tote. If you are visiting me, please hand me my donation and excuse yourself to freshen up.

  • To you arrive early, please do not wander around the area or ask for me. I will provide specific details to make it easy for you to find me, whether you are coming straight to me or meeting me in public.

  • If I am visiting you, I need to know exactly where I am going beforehand. Please share location details and clear directions in order for me to find you.

  • If there is another person present on our date that we did not mutually agree upon, our date will be canceled immediately with no refund. This includes other models or your significant other, friends, family, employees, colleagues, and others. Our time together is between us only. Private drivers and pilots are not included.

  • I dress chic for public appearances, never sleazy. Wardrobe requests that are not suitable for public activities may be worn for private use.

  • If our date is two hours or longer and there is something in particular you would like me to wear, you are welcome to send me a gift on LuxyList. I also accept digital gift cards to purchase the item to wear for you. If you prefer, you can also bring items with you to present to me in private.

  • No FaceTime or webcam/Skype. Video contact is only acceptable if we are already familiar and have committed to an official ongoing arrangement with an NDA signed beforehand.Likewise, I will not attend events with your friends, family or colleagues unless we are in an official ongoing arrangement and/or have an NDA signed beforehand.

  • If I am visiting you, I reserve the right to check the area in your presence for recording devices. I may feel the need to do so to ensure my safety and privacy. If you have security cameras inside your location, they must be turned off to respect my privacy. I will know if they are left on. Violating my privacy by filming me during our date is illegal. It is a criminal offense to record without consent. If you film me, you will be reported to the police. Photographing, filming, or recording me or going through my things without my consent will terminate our date with no refund provided and you will be reported to local authorities.

  • Unless we have an official ongoing arrangement and have mutually agreed to become acquainted with friend(s) and colleague(s), our relationship is meant to stay between us. Do not discuss other models with me and do not discuss me with other models.

  • I have a NRP (No Review Policy). I do not participate in review culture on any platform because anything I consent to and create with someone in private is never to be shared publicly. It is an invasion of my privacy, a violation of our agreement, and can put me in danger.

  • I am reliable, honest, punctual and handle everything that comes my way with class and a smile!